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Cultivating a practice of gratitude in jiujitsu and martial arts

In a world that often focuses on what’s lacking or what needs improvement, cultivating a practice of gratitude can be transformative. Gratitude is the act of recognizing and appreciating the good things in our lives, both big and small. It’s a powerful mindset that can bring about a shift in our perspective, leading to increased happiness, contentment, and overall well-being. In this post, we will explore the many benefits of gratitude and how we can incorporate it into our daily lives.

Gratitude has been found to have a significant impact on our mental health. Research suggests that expressing gratitude can increase positive emotions, reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety, and improve overall life satisfaction. By focusing on what we have rather than what we lack, we train our minds to seek out the positive aspects of our lives, fostering a sense of optimism and resilience.

Gratitude has the power to deepen our connections with others. When we express gratitude towards someone, it not only makes them feel appreciated and valued but also strengthens the bond between us. Whether it’s a simple thank you note, a heartfelt conversation, or acts of kindness, expressing gratitude towards loved ones and even strangers can foster a sense of belonging and create a ripple effect of positivity in our relationships.

Practicing gratitude helps us shift our perspective from scarcity to abundance. It reminds us that even during challenging times, there are still things to be thankful for. Instead of dwelling on what’s going wrong, we redirect our attention to the blessings, opportunities, and lessons present in our lives. This shift in perspective can lead to increased resilience, a greater sense of control, and a more positive outlook on life.

Gratitude and mindfulness go hand in hand. When we practice gratitude, we train ourselves to be fully present in the moment, appreciating the beauty and goodness around us. By focusing on the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, we can experience a greater sense of peace and contentment. Gratitude serves as an anchor, grounding us in the here and now, and reminding us to savor life’s precious moments.

Gratitude is a catalyst for personal growth and self-improvement. When we embrace gratitude, we become more aware of our strengths, accomplishments, and the progress we’ve made. It encourages us to acknowledge and learn from our challenges, seeing them as opportunities for growth and development. Gratitude empowers us to cultivate a growth mindset and pursue our goals with enthusiasm and determination.

Here are some ways we can incorporate gratitude into our daily lives
Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you are grateful for each day.

  • Practice gratitude meditation: Set aside a few minutes to reflect on the things you appreciate in your life.
  • Express gratitude to others: Take the time to thank those who have made a positive impact on your life.
  • Focus on the present moment: Engage in activities mindfully, savoring the experience and expressing gratitude for it.
  • Shift your language: Replace complaints and negative statements with gratitude and positive affirmations.

Gratitude is a powerful practice that can transform our lives, fostering happiness, contentment, and resilience. By cultivating an attitude of gratitude, we shift our focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant, paving the way for greater joy and fulfillment. So, let’s make gratitude a part of our daily lives and unlock its remarkable benefits. As Melody Beattie wisely said, “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.”

Coach Danny

Essential aspects of jiujitsu tournament preparation

 Jiu Jitsu tournaments provide a platform for practitioners to test their skills and compete against equally passionate opponents. However, success in these competitions does not come easily. It requires meticulous preparation, both physically and mentally, to ensure optimal performance. In this essay, we will explore the essential aspects of Jiu Jitsu tournament preparation, highlighting the significance of conditioning, technique refinement, mental fortitude, and strategic planning.

Jiu Jitsu is an incredibly demanding sport that requires a high level of physical fitness. Athletes must possess strength, endurance, flexibility, and agility to excel in the tournament setting. Preparing one’s body through a well-rounded conditioning program is crucial for success. This program may include cardiovascular exercises to improve stamina, strength training to build functional muscle, and flexibility training to enhance joint mobility. Moreover, specific Jiu Jitsu drills and exercises targeting core strength and explosiveness are essential to execute techniques effectively.

Technique refinement is the backbone of Jiu Jitsu tournament preparation. Practitioners must devote ample time to drilling and refining their techniques to ensure precision and efficiency in execution. This involves practicing fundamental moves such as sweeps, submissions, escapes, and transitions. Additionally, studying and analyzing different strategies, positions, and submissions used by successful competitors can provide valuable insights to expand one’s repertoire of techniques. Continuous refinement and mastery of techniques not only enhance performance but also boost confidence when facing challenging opponents.

Jiu Jitsu tournaments demand mental resilience and composure, as matches can be physically and mentally draining. Athletes must develop mental fortitude to overcome the pressure, stress, and potential setbacks they may encounter during competition. Mental preparation involves various strategies such as visualization, meditation, and positive self-talk. Visualizing successful execution of techniques and envisioning oneself victorious can enhance focus and confidence. Meditation and mindfulness practices can help manage anxiety and maintain mental clarity during intense matches. Positive self-talk is also crucial, as it reinforces belief in one’s abilities and helps overcome self-doubt.

Strategic planning plays a vital role in Jiu Jitsu tournament preparation. It involves analyzing opponents’ strengths, weaknesses, and preferred techniques to formulate an effective game plan. Understanding an opponent’s tendencies can provide valuable insights to exploit their vulnerabilities. Additionally, developing a diverse set of strategies that adapt to different situations within a match is crucial. This includes recognizing opportunities to attack, defend, or counterattack based on the opponent’s reactions. Coaches and training partners play an instrumental role in devising effective strategies and helping athletes refine their tactical approach.

Preparing for a Jiu Jitsu tournament requires a holistic approach that encompasses physical conditioning, technique refinement, mental fortitude, and strategic planning. Athletes must commit themselves to rigorous training and discipline in each of these areas to maximize their chances of success. The combination of physical fitness, technical proficiency, mental resilience, and strategic acumen sets the stage for achieving victory in the competitive arena. By diligently preparing in these areas, Jiu Jitsu practitioners can enter tournaments with confidence and pursue their goals with determination.

Coach Danny

Watching and understanding Judo for fun and to learn Tachi Waza (standing technique)

In my free time I have been enjoying watching Judo lately. It is an exciting sport with a lot of similarities and some big differences to BJJ. I started watching it to study techniques that I could add to my takedown game. Then I kept watching  matches because I found them really entertaining. 

Watching Judo I learned about the rules. Each player is trying to “Ippon” the other one. This means they are trying to throw them and get their back flat on the mat. If one player throws the other on their side with partial back to the mat they score a “waza-ari”. Two of those are equal to an Ippon. The matches are four minutes and pretty fast paced. Stalling is called very quickly by the refs for lack of action, which I’m a fan of. Once the match is on the ground one player can win by pin or submission but the ref will stand both players up pretty quickly if the action stops. Most Judo players don’t engage very much on the ground based on the matches I watched. I think the length of the matches in Judo help make it an exciting sport, I probably have an unpopular opinion about this but I think BJJ should copy that. There are so many black belt Jiu Jitsu matches that are a very slow eight minutes with a two minute sprint at the end. I could be missing some rules but this is what I have learned so far. 

My favorite athlete to watch and study so far is Shohei Ono. He is an athlete from Japan. He has won three world titles and two Olympic gold medals. His matches are very exciting and he is known for doing a double sleeve grip throw (I don’t know the name of the technique). I will continue to watch and study this sport and hopefully be able to add some cool throws to my stand up.

Coach Danny

Jiu Jitsu Black belt promotion at El Dorado Hills BJJ

We had a chance to do a short Q&A with Kunk and reflect on his jiujitsu journey over the years. Kunk has been a “big” part of edh jiujitsu. Not only does he train regularly 2-3 sessions a week but also he has contributed to the peewee, kids, and jiujitsu classes as a volunteer coach. Kunk is an open book of grappling knowledge and finds every opportunity to share with his team what he knows and what he is developing in his game.

When & how did you get started:

I started doing Jiu Jitsu in 2010ish.

I began doing Jiu Jitsu because I loved wrestling in high school and college, but when I stopped I didn’t have a physical outlet I enjoyed, got out of shape and gained weight. After wrestling was over, I fell into the old man trap of eating and drinking whatever I wanted, with the mindset that I would just work it off at practice. I continued to work out but nowhere near enough to counteract some of the unhealthy habits and I ended up weighing over 330lbs.

One day a friend of mine told me he had started going to EDHBJJ. I had watched MMA and the UFC shows and always thought that Jiu Jitsu would be fun to try. So I got permission from my girlfriend/ now wife, to join my friend in a trial class. The first thing I noticed was how much hard work people were putting into learning Jiu Jitsu. A few classes into starting at EDHBJJ, I finally got to roll with Eliot. During this roll I had turtled, turned into him grabbing his inside leg and did a sit out. In wrestling I would have scored five points and possibly a pin. In Jiu Jistu, Eliot having a wealth of knowledge, took advantage of this position and did a crucifix choke. I was forced to tap. This was the first time I was submitted by anyone in the school and I instantly fell in love with Jiu Jitsu from that moment forward.

What are your goals?

My goals in Jiu Jitsu are to keep learning new ways to improve my technique, help people learn, be the best training partner I can be, and most importantly have fun.

What are some quotes or phrases you like?

– Winners never quit and quitters never win.
– If it was easy everyone would do it.
– Embrace the grind.

Disciplien & motivation

Something I have struggled a lot with and seen others struggle with is finding a way to feel motivated, especially to do things that I don’t enjoy. Even though it does seem easier to get things done when I feel motivated it doesn’t actually change anything about the activity. If I need to clean my house I am still going to do all of the same chores whether I feel like doing them or not.

Same with Jiu Jitsu, whether or not i feel motivated to go to practice is not going to change what takes place at that practice. Motivation seems like something out of my control. It’s nice when it is there but it does not stay forever.

However, when people have discipline they will get things done with or without feeling motivated. Discipline is a skill that we can practice where as motivation is a feeling that we experience. Developing a routine and sticking to it whether it’s with diet, exercise, learning are all opportunities to practice discipline. Anytime hanging out at home and watching Netflix or playing video games sounds better than going to the gym for training, I have an opportunity to practice discipline. This means being disciplined is totally in my control and that no matter how bad I am at it, I can improve with practice.
Personally, I find it much easier to be very disciplined in things that I enjoy and areas where I feel motivated. I find that it takes much more effort and focus to practice being disciplined when it comes to things I don’t enjoy.

I know if and when I put in that focus and effort and practice being disciplined, the payout is always worth it. I used to really dislike weight lifting and strength training in general. I would never do it because i just did not feel motivated to lift weights. About a year ago I decided to just put it into my routine twice a week. Every Tuesday and Thursday I would show up and do the workout whether I felt like it or not until it became a habit. Now it’s one of my favorite parts of my routine.

Another thing I have always struggled to find motivation for is cleaning. For a long time I would neglect my chores because…. well, who wants to clean, right? Somebody I shared this with suggested that I plan to do my cleaning at specific times of the day and week, and make it a routine. So I made a commitment with myself and set up a weekly cleaning schedule. At first this was very difficult for me and felt like it took forever. Now that I have been doing it for a few years it is just a habit. Even with things I don’t enjoy much, I know if I practice being disciplined with those activities for long enough, they will become easier and easier and sometimes even enjoyable. If I depend on motivation to reach my goals, I will never get there. If I practice discipline to work towards my goals, almost anything is within reach. 

Coach Danny

A challenge worth taking

Every day is an opportunity to challenge yourself! Jiu-Jitsu is a great challenge for yourself; not just physically and mentally, but also for your self discipline. It’s okay if you’re not the best one on the mat, or if you get submitted once a minute. If you come on time, give it your all while you are there, and train at a realistic consistency you will improve! That is a challenge worth taking!

Gold Medals at the Gentle Art Challenge in San Jose

Tanner and Jamie both won gold at the Gentle Art Challenge in San Jose. The Gentle Art Challenge was a submission only tournament with EBI-style overtime rules to decide the winner in the case the match regulation didn’t end with a submission.

Tanner and Jamie both won with submissions to decisively win their divisions at the tournament in San Jose.

The submission style tournament is one of the growing forms of competition styles in the sport. In the submission only tournament there is no points for advancement in position or attacks, but only when you submit your opponent with a viable attack are you declared the winner.

Belt Promotion: PeeWee Gray White Belt Sam

Congrats Sam! PeeWee jiujitsu class gray white belt promotion:

Sam brings focus to the peewee class where things can get kinda crazy at times. His leadership is in his ability to focus, concentrate, and show others how to train. Even in a class with four year olds with are brand new to the art of jiujitsu, Sam’s actions speak for the coaches. When Sam speaks every body listens.

Sam started jiujitsu with the invitation from his friend, and you will find them challenging each other, laughing, learning, and growing into the mat as a martial artist. Friendship on the mat is an incredible experience. Your friend becomes a person you want to beat, a person who will encourage you, and someone you will respect more each and every day you train.

Professional Jiu Jitsu Competitors in Reno, NV


On the last weekend of January, Tanner Ford and Eliot Kelly made their presence felt on the stage of Fight to Win Pro 60 in Reno, Nevada. This was an exciting night for the two competitors where over $30,000 were paid to the many competitors of the night. Tanner made his Submission only debut on the fight to win card and won via heel hook. He had a dominant performance and was able to execute to precision what he had been training. We are excited to see him again on the stage!

Eliot wasn’t as successful as Tanner in his match. Eliot lost a unanimous referee decision. Needless to say he made an effort to put on a show of takedowns and hand fighting looking to gain advantage starting from the feet.

We are excited to have been a part of another Fight to Win pro card in the Nevada area! This was an exciting opportunity to compete and perform on a professional stage in the art of submission grappling. We look forward to seeing these competitors in action again on the fight to win stage!

New Classes & New Schedule at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

EDH Jiu Jitsu is adding two new classes during the weekly training cycle in 2018! We welcome students with a curiosity to learn and understand the grappling arts of jiu jitsu, wrestling, judo and the like. Our Brazilian Jiu Jitsu martial arts program is a one of a kind in El Dorado Hills, with  age appropriate curriculums for toddlers, kids, teens, and adults. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to start with a FIVE day FIVE dollar trial!

TS Pee Wee Jiu Jitsu Class (age 4-6)

The PeeWee Jiu-Jitsu Class is a class for toddlers to learn through fun, work with different coaches, socialize with their peers, and develop skills that will help them off the mat. The new class is on Tuesday at 3:30pm and Saturday at 9:10am.

MW Adult Basics Jiu Jitsu (age 17+)

The Adult Basics class is a perfect class for adults that are beginning jiu jitsu or looking to get back into jiu jitsu but need a little time to get the body back in shape before training in the advanced class. Our jiujitsu program makes an emphasis in learning and drilling the technical positions and movements before participating in any uncontrolled sparring situations. This allows the student to build a skill set of moves and develop an understanding of what is possible on the mat. Once these skills are acquired, the adult student is welcome to engage in different sparring situations.

We have students with successful weight loss testimonies, students who have found ways to deal with stress, and others who finally found a life long hobby. All are welcome to start with our five day five dollar trial!