The Way of Tea (Chadō) is more than just preparing and drinking tea—it is a philosophy deeply rooted in discipline, mindfulness, and respect. The same values that guide the Japanese tea ceremony also serve as pillars of martial arts training. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that the principles of Chadō—harmony (wa), respect (kei), purity (sei), and tranquility (jaku)—align perfectly with the mindset needed to excel in Jiu Jitsu.
In part two this three-part series, we’ll explore how the wisdom of the tea ceremony applies to martial arts, helping practitioners refine their skills both on and off the mat.

In the Way of Tea (Chadō), respect (kei) is a fundamental principle. Every action in the tea ceremony is performed with deep consideration—not just for the tea itself, but for the guests, the tools, and the tradition. This same level of respect is essential in Jiu Jitsu, shaping the culture of the dojo and the relationships between students and instructors.
At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, respect is more than just a courtesy—it’s the foundation of growth, trust, and community.
1. Respect for Instructors and the Art of Jiu Jitsu
Martial arts have been passed down for generations, refined by masters who dedicated their lives to understanding combat and self-discipline. Just as a tea master honors the centuries-old tradition of Chadō, Jiu Jitsu practitioners should recognize the lineage of their art.
Traditional ways of showing Respect in Training:
- Bowing or greeting your coach and training partner upon entering the training space.
- Listening attentively to instructors and applying feedback.
- Understanding that learning Jiu Jitsu is a collaborative process between you, your coach, and your partner.

2. Respect for Training Partners
Every training partner is essential to your improvement. Without them, you wouldn’t have anyone to test techniques, develop timing, or sharpen your skills. Training should be a collaborative process, not a battle of egos.
Ways to Show Respect to Training Partners:
- Control your intensity – Rolling too hard or recklessly increases the risk of injury.
- Communicate – If you’re injured or uncomfortable, let your partner know.
- Express gratitude – A simple “thank you” after each round builds a culture of respect.
3. Respect for Yourself
Self-respect means taking care of your body, setting goals, and maintaining discipline in training. It also means understanding your limits and knowing when to rest. A tea master treats every movement with care—likewise, a martial artist should approach training with mindfulness and purpose.

Respect in Everyday Life
The lessons of kei apply to how we interact with others outside the dojo. Whether it’s showing appreciation for family, respecting coworkers, or maintaining humility in success, martial arts teach a level of mindfulness that extends far beyond the mat.
At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we cultivate respect not just as a martial arts principle, but as a way of life.http://edhjiujitsu.com