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The New Competition: Insights for Jiu Jitsu from Start with Why

In Simon Sinek’s Start with Why, Sinek explores how businesses and organizations thrive by focusing on their purpose rather than getting caught in endless battles for market share. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, these ideas resonate deeply with how we approach training, competition, and community.

Competing Against Yourself

Sinek emphasizes that true success doesn’t come from beating others—it comes from staying true to your “why.” In Jiu Jitsu, this aligns with the idea of personal growth over external validation. While competition is a valuable tool for testing skills, the real opponent is often yourself:

• Improving consistency: Did you show up on the tough days?

• Measuring progress: Are you better than you were last month?

• Focusing on fundamentals: Have you deepened your understanding of key techniques?

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we encourage our students to embrace these questions, ensuring that their journey on the mats is driven by internal motivation rather than external comparisons.

Infinite vs. Finite Games

Sinek contrasts finite games (with set rules and winners) with infinite games (focused on continued growth and contribution). Jiu Jitsu is both. While tournaments are finite, the art itself is infinite—there’s always something new to learn, refine, or teach.

Our gym embodies this infinite mindset. Whether you’re a white belt mastering escapes or a black belt honing subtle details, the path never ends. It’s about engaging with the process, not just chasing medals.

Inspiring Through Purpose

Organizations that succeed inspire people by sharing their “why.” For us, our “why” goes beyond teaching techniques—it’s about building confidence, resilience, and a supportive community. This purpose drives everything we do, from kids’ classes teaching life skills like bravery and humility to adult classes that foster camaraderie and personal growth.

Applying These Lessons

Here’s how you can bring the lessons to your Jiu Jitsu journey:

1. Define your “why”: Why did you start training? Why do you keep showing up? Keep this purpose front and center.

2. Focus on improvement: Compete with the person you were yesterday, not the person across the mat.

3. Celebrate the journey: Remember, the medals and belts are milestones, not destinations.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we aim to create an environment where everyone is inspired to keep growing—on and off the mats. Whether you’re preparing for your first competition or simply looking to improve your fitness and mindset, let your “why” guide the way.

Want to explore this mindset for yourself? Join us on the mats and discover how Jiu Jitsu can align with your purpose.

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Building Bravery on the Mat: November’s Youth ‘Mat Chat’ at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

In November, our youth program at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu will focus on a life skill that applies both on and off the mat: bravery. Through our monthly ‘mat chat,’ we aim to help our young students understand that bravery isn’t just about big, heroic actions—it’s also about showing courage in everyday situations, standing up for what’s right, and pushing through challenges.

What Is Bravery?

We’ll start by discussing what bravery looks like in different forms. For some, it might mean facing their fears, like trying a challenging new move in Jiu Jitsu. For others, it could mean speaking up in a tough situation or supporting a friend who’s going through a hard time. We want our students to recognize that bravery doesn’t mean being fearless; it means acting despite the fear.

Bravery on the Mat

In Jiu Jitsu, bravery often shows up as perseverance. For our younger students, bravery might mean stepping onto the mat to spar, trying a new technique, or challenging themselves against a stronger opponent. We encourage them to face these challenges with an open mind, reminding them that the true measure of bravery isn’t whether they win or lose, but that they show up and try their best.

How Can Bravery Shape Our Lives?

Our goal is to help students see that bravery is a skill they can carry beyond the dojo. By encouraging our students to face their fears and persevere through challenges, they’ll develop resilience that can support them in school, friendships, and all areas of life. We’ll also talk about how brave people are often leaders—not because they’re the loudest, but because they’re willing to do what’s right, even when it’s difficult.

Helping Our Youth Understand Their Own Bravery

Each child experiences bravery in their own way, and we want to create an environment where they feel safe to share. We’ll invite our students to talk about times when they’ve been brave, whether it’s in class or elsewhere. By sharing, they’ll see that bravery is something they can build on every day, no matter how small the steps may seem.

Closing Out with Encouragement

Throughout the month, our instructors will recognize moments of bravery in class, from a student attempting a challenging technique to someone helping a teammate who’s feeling discouraged. By highlighting these moments, we hope our students leave November with a stronger sense of how bravery can positively impact their lives and those around them.

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Why Teenagers Should Train Jiu Jitsu: More Than Just Physical Training, It’s Education

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that training isn’t just about mastering techniques—it’s about shaping the entire person. For teenagers, this training becomes a form of physical education that goes far beyond learning how to grapple or defend oneself. Jiu Jitsu teaches essential life skills that foster personal growth, both on and off the mat.

Building Discipline and Focus

Training in Jiu Jitsu requires a high level of discipline. It’s not just about showing up to class, but about consistently working on improvement, setting goals, and pushing past mental barriers. For teens, learning this kind of discipline can translate into their academic and personal lives, giving them the tools to stay focused and manage their time effectively.

Developing Problem-Solving Skills

Every roll in Jiu Jitsu presents a new problem to solve. How can I pass my opponent’s guard? How do I escape a difficult position? Teenagers learn to approach challenges methodically and keep a calm, solution-oriented mindset. This kind of critical thinking is not just valuable in sports but also in navigating life’s obstacles, from exams to peer pressure.

Emotional and Mental Resilience

Jiu Jitsu is hard—both physically and mentally. Teenagers are taught how to handle losses, frustrations, and setbacks, which are natural parts of training. By learning to deal with the emotional ups and downs that come with Jiu Jitsu, they build resilience and grit. Over time, this makes them more capable of handling stress and adversity outside of the gym, whether it’s in school, relationships, or other aspects of their lives.

Physical Fitness and Health Education

Jiu Jitsu provides teenagers with a full-body workout that builds strength, flexibility, and endurance. More importantly, it teaches them about their bodies, helping them understand movement, nutrition, and injury prevention. Rather than viewing fitness as a chore, they begin to see it as a lifelong practice tied to their overall well-being.

Respect, Humility, and Community

Training at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu is about more than individual performance—it’s about being part of a team. Teenagers learn the importance of respecting their training partners and instructors. The camaraderie that develops through hard training fosters humility, as even the best practitioners will have days when they struggle. This environment helps teenagers build meaningful relationships, while understanding the importance of respect and support in a healthy community.

Real-World Self-Defense and Confidence

Of course, one of the most practical benefits is that Jiu Jitsu gives teenagers the ability to defend themselves. The confidence that comes from knowing how to handle real-world situations—whether it’s through actual self-defense techniques or simply learning how to remain calm in stressful situations—can be life-changing.

More Than Just a Sport

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we view training for teenagers as a form of education that teaches valuable life lessons. It’s more than just learning moves; it’s a way to develop mentally, emotionally, and physically. For teens, this can be an essential part of growing up—teaching them how to handle challenges, take care of their bodies, and become better individuals.

If you have a teenager looking for more than just a physical activity, consider Jiu Jitsu. It’s a path to personal growth that extends far beyond the mats.

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Starting Jiu Jitsu as a Teenager: A Path to Confidence and Growth at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

Starting a new activity as a teenager can be intimidating, but Jiu Jitsu offers an exciting opportunity to grow both physically and mentally. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe in the transformative power of this martial art and have seen firsthand how it benefits our teenage students.

Building Confidence Through Challenge

Jiu Jitsu is known as “the gentle art” because it emphasizes leverage and technique over brute strength, making it a perfect fit for teens of all sizes and abilities. As teens train, they face challenges on the mat—learning how to defend against larger opponents, mastering new techniques, and dealing with the frustration of not getting it right the first time. These challenges teach them perseverance and build self-confidence as they progress and see their skills develop.

Physical and Mental Benefits

Jiu Jitsu is a full-body workout that improves strength, flexibility, and coordination. It’s also a mental game, requiring strategic thinking and problem-solving during each roll. As teenagers grow into young adults, they benefit from the discipline, focus, and mental resilience that Jiu Jitsu fosters. The sport offers an outlet to relieve stress and sharpen their minds, all while being a fun and engaging activity.

A Positive Community

One of the most significant advantages of joining Jiu Jitsu as a teen is becoming part of a positive and supportive community. Our students come from all walks of life, and in our gym, everyone works together to help each other improve. Teens in particular find mentors in the higher belts and coaches, learning valuable life lessons from those who have already walked the path. This sense of camaraderie and belonging helps teens build friendships and stay motivated to continue training.

Setting Goals and Achieving Success

In Jiu Jitsu, success is earned through hard work and dedication. Whether it’s earning a stripe on their white belt, preparing for a competition, or just hitting personal milestones, teens learn the importance of setting goals and working steadily toward them. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we guide our teenage students step by step, celebrating each success along the way.

A Skill for Life

For teenagers starting Jiu Jitsu, the journey is just beginning. This martial art teaches skills that extend far beyond the mat—self-discipline, problem-solving, patience, and respect. These qualities help teens navigate challenges in school, relationships, and their personal development as they grow into adulthood.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we’re proud to offer an environment where teens can thrive, grow, and learn valuable life lessons through martial arts. If you or your teenager are interested in starting Jiu Jitsu, we invite you to join us for a class and discover what this empowering journey is all about.

Adults Jiu Jitsu

Unlock Your Potential: 3 Reasons to Start Your Martial Arts Journey as an Adult

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we often hear adults say, “I wish I started martial arts when I was younger.” But here’s the truth: it’s never too late to start! Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond, beginning your martial arts journey can be one of the most rewarding decisions you’ll ever make. Let’s explore three compelling reasons why starting martial arts as an adult is a path worth taking.

1. Enhance Your Physical Fitness and Well-Being

One of the most immediate benefits of martial arts training is the improvement in physical fitness. Unlike traditional gym workouts, martial arts engage your entire body, building strength, flexibility, endurance, and coordination. Each class is a full-body workout that challenges you in new ways, whether you’re perfecting a technique, drilling with a partner, or rolling during sparring sessions.

But the benefits go beyond physical fitness. Martial arts also promote mental well-being. The focus required in training helps clear your mind, reduce stress, and improve concentration. You’ll find that the discipline cultivated on the mats translates into other areas of your life, leading to a more balanced and healthy lifestyle.

2. Build Confidence and Self-Esteem

Martial arts offer a structured environment where you can set and achieve goals, which is incredibly empowering. Every new technique you learn, every stripe you earn, and every challenge you overcome builds your confidence.

For many adults, the idea of stepping onto the mats for the first time can be intimidating. But at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, you’re never alone in your journey. Our supportive community and experienced instructors are here to guide you, no matter your starting point. As you progress, you’ll find that your self-esteem grows, not just from your physical accomplishments but from the resilience and perseverance you develop along the way.

3. Join a Community and Make Lifelong Connections

Starting martial arts isn’t just about learning self-defense or getting fit—it’s about becoming part of a community. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, our adult classes are filled with people from all walks of life, all coming together with a common goal: self-improvement. The camaraderie built through shared challenges and victories is unmatched.

You’ll find that the friendships formed on the mats often extend beyond the gym. Whether it’s grabbing a post-training meal, supporting each other at competitions, or simply sharing life’s ups and downs, the connections you make in martial arts are real and lasting.

Take the First Step Today

There’s no better time than now to start your martial arts journey. Whether you’re looking to improve your fitness, boost your confidence, or become part of a thriving community, El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu offers the perfect environment to help you achieve your goals.

Remember, every black belt was once a white belt who took that first step. Why not make today the day you take yours?

Ready to get started? Visit us at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu and begin your journey with a free introductory class. We can’t wait to see you on the mats!

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Starting Martial Arts as a Teenager: Embracing the Journey at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

Starting martial arts as a teenager can be a transformative experience, offering benefits that extend beyond the mat. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we understand the unique challenges and opportunities that come with beginning this journey during your teenage years.

1. Building Confidence and Discipline

For teenagers, martial arts provide a structured environment to develop self-discipline and confidence. Learning techniques, setting goals, and achieving milestones helps build a sense of accomplishment. This newfound confidence often translates into other areas of life, including academics and social interactions.

2. Improving Physical Fitness

Martial arts training is an excellent way to enhance physical fitness. Teenagers will experience improvements in strength, flexibility, and cardiovascular health. The diverse range of techniques and drills ensures a full-body workout, which is crucial during the teenage years when the body is still developing.

3. Learning Valuable Life Skills

Martial arts instill important life skills such as respect, perseverance, and resilience. Through the challenges faced on the mat, teenagers learn to handle adversity with a positive mindset. These skills are invaluable as they navigate the complexities of adolescence.

4. Fostering a Sense of Community

Joining a martial arts class at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu means becoming part of a supportive and inclusive community. Teenagers can form friendships with peers who share similar interests and values. The camaraderie built in class often extends beyond the dojo, creating lasting bonds.

5. Exploring Personal Growth

Martial arts provide a platform for personal growth and self-discovery. Teenagers have the opportunity to explore their strengths and weaknesses, setting and achieving personal goals. The journey through belts and ranks reflects their progress and commitment, fostering a sense of pride and accomplishment.

6. Preparing for Future Challenges

The lessons learned in martial arts prepare teenagers for future challenges. The problem-solving skills, focus, and resilience developed through training are assets that will serve them well in various aspects of life, including higher education and career pursuits.

Starting martial arts as a teenager at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu is more than just learning self-defense; it’s about embarking on a journey of personal growth and development. Whether you’re looking to improve your fitness, build confidence, or be part of a supportive community, our classes are designed to help you thrive. Join us and discover how martial arts can positively impact your teenage years and beyond.