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Kids Jiu Jitsu

Teaching Integrity on the Mats at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that the lessons learned on the mats extend far beyond the dojo. One of the values we emphasize to our young practitioners is integrity. But what exactly does integrity mean, especially for our younger-age students?

Understanding Integrity

Integrity means doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. It’s about being honest, trustworthy, and making good choices simply because it’s the right thing to do. We teach our students that integrity is a cornerstone of both jiu jitsu and life.

Examples of Integrity in Action

To help our young students grasp the concept of integrity, we share relatable examples:

  1. Being Honest: If a student accidentally knocks over a water bottle and no one sees, we encourage them to pick it up and inform the coach. This simple act of honesty builds character.
  2. Playing Fair: When rolling with a partner, following the rules and not cheating to win is crucial. While winning is exciting, doing it the right way is what truly matters.
  3. Helping Others: If a student notices a friend struggling with a technique, we encourage them to offer help. Taking extra time to practice together not only improves skills but also fosters a supportive community.

Integrity: A Superpower

We tell our students that integrity is like having a superpower. It makes them better teammates, friends, and people. By being honest, fair, and kind, they can positively impact those around them.

Practicing Integrity Every Day

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we strive to instill integrity in our students daily. Whether on the mats or in their everyday lives, we want our young practitioners to understand the importance of doing the right thing.

Here are three questions to help our young students learn and reflect on integrity:

  1. “Is this the right thing to do?”
  • Encourage students to pause and consider their actions.
  1. “Would I be proud of my actions if others knew?”
  • This helps students think about their actions even when no one is watching.
  1. “How would I feel if someone did this to me?”
  • This promotes empathy and helps students understand the impact of their actions on others, fostering a sense of fairness and kindness.

Let’s continue to practice integrity, both here at the dojo and beyond. Together, we can build a community of strong, principled individuals who make an impact in a positive way.

Join us at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu as we champion integrity and other core values that shape our students into outstanding individuals.

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Mat Chat: Keeping our community clean

Hey everyone! Let’s talk about why it’s important to keep our community clean, focusing on responsibility, community pride, and respect.

  1. Responsibility: Keeping our community clean is our job. When we throw away our trash properly and pick up litter, we show we can take care of our home.
  2. Pride: A clean neighborhood makes us feel proud. When everything looks nice, we can be happy and proud of where we live and play.
  3. Respect: Cleaning up our area shows respect for our friends, family, and neighbors, and ourselves. It shows that we care about each other and our environment.

By being responsible, taking pride, and showing respect, we can make our community a wonderful place for everyone!

A mat chat is an essential component of martial arts and sports training, serving as a deliberate moment where instructors and students gather to discuss important lessons that extend beyond physical skills. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu we value this skill and make moments to coach these skills with intention. The importance of a mat chat in reinforcing life skills through training on the mat and into life off the mat can be summarized in several key points:

  1. Values and Ethics: Mat chats provide an opportunity to instill core values such as respect, discipline, integrity, and perseverance. Discussing these principles helps students understand their importance not only in training but in everyday life.
  2. Mental Resilience: The mat chat is a platform to teach mental toughness and resilience. Instructors can share personal stories and practical advice on how to overcome challenges, deal with failure, and maintain a positive attitude, skills that are crucial both on and off the mat.
  3. Goal Setting and Achievement: Conversations during mat chats often focus on setting and achieving goals. This practice teaches students the importance of setting clear, attainable objectives and the steps needed to reach them, a valuable skill for personal and professional development.
  4. Conflict Resolution and Social Skills: Mat chats can address topics such as effective communication, teamwork, and conflict resolution. These discussions help students develop social skills that are essential for healthy relationships and community involvement.
  5. Health and Wellness: Instructors can use mat chats to emphasize the importance of physical fitness, nutrition, and overall wellness. This holistic approach encourages students to adopt healthy lifestyles that benefit their long-term well-being.
  6. Self-Reflection and Growth: By encouraging self-reflection, mat chats help students assess their progress, recognize their strengths and weaknesses, and develop a growth mindset. This reflective practice is key to continuous improvement in all areas of life.
  7. Community and Belonging: Mat chats foster a sense of community and belonging among students. Sharing experiences and insights builds camaraderie and mutual support, reinforcing the idea that they are part of a larger, supportive network.

In essence, mat chats are a critical educational tool that bridges the gap between physical training and personal development. They ensure that the lessons learned on the mat are applied to everyday life, helping students grow into well-rounded individuals who can navigate the complexities of life with confidence and resilience. We believe at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu that”Getting stronger together” isn’t just limited to what we do on the mat but also off the mat.