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Adults Jiu Jitsu, Kids Jiu Jitsu

Cultivating a practice of gratitude in jiujitsu and martial arts

In a world that often focuses on what’s lacking or what needs improvement, cultivating a practice of gratitude can be transformative. Gratitude is the act of recognizing and appreciating the good things in our lives, both big and small. It’s a powerful mindset that can bring about a shift in our perspective, leading to increased happiness, contentment, and overall well-being. In this post, we will explore the many benefits of gratitude and how we can incorporate it into our daily lives.

Gratitude has been found to have a significant impact on our mental health. Research suggests that expressing gratitude can increase positive emotions, reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety, and improve overall life satisfaction. By focusing on what we have rather than what we lack, we train our minds to seek out the positive aspects of our lives, fostering a sense of optimism and resilience.

Gratitude has the power to deepen our connections with others. When we express gratitude towards someone, it not only makes them feel appreciated and valued but also strengthens the bond between us. Whether it’s a simple thank you note, a heartfelt conversation, or acts of kindness, expressing gratitude towards loved ones and even strangers can foster a sense of belonging and create a ripple effect of positivity in our relationships.

Practicing gratitude helps us shift our perspective from scarcity to abundance. It reminds us that even during challenging times, there are still things to be thankful for. Instead of dwelling on what’s going wrong, we redirect our attention to the blessings, opportunities, and lessons present in our lives. This shift in perspective can lead to increased resilience, a greater sense of control, and a more positive outlook on life.

Gratitude and mindfulness go hand in hand. When we practice gratitude, we train ourselves to be fully present in the moment, appreciating the beauty and goodness around us. By focusing on the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, we can experience a greater sense of peace and contentment. Gratitude serves as an anchor, grounding us in the here and now, and reminding us to savor life’s precious moments.

Gratitude is a catalyst for personal growth and self-improvement. When we embrace gratitude, we become more aware of our strengths, accomplishments, and the progress we’ve made. It encourages us to acknowledge and learn from our challenges, seeing them as opportunities for growth and development. Gratitude empowers us to cultivate a growth mindset and pursue our goals with enthusiasm and determination.

Here are some ways we can incorporate gratitude into our daily lives
Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you are grateful for each day.

  • Practice gratitude meditation: Set aside a few minutes to reflect on the things you appreciate in your life.
  • Express gratitude to others: Take the time to thank those who have made a positive impact on your life.
  • Focus on the present moment: Engage in activities mindfully, savoring the experience and expressing gratitude for it.
  • Shift your language: Replace complaints and negative statements with gratitude and positive affirmations.

Gratitude is a powerful practice that can transform our lives, fostering happiness, contentment, and resilience. By cultivating an attitude of gratitude, we shift our focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant, paving the way for greater joy and fulfillment. So, let’s make gratitude a part of our daily lives and unlock its remarkable benefits. As Melody Beattie wisely said, “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.”

Coach Danny

Adults Jiu Jitsu, Kids Jiu Jitsu

Getting stronger together: edhbjj

Jiu Jitsu is a martial art and sport that centers around individual competition. It’s about pushing yourself to be your best and taking on your opponent in a one on one match. However, what many people overlook is that in a Jiu Jitsu gym, teamwork is essential to every athlete’s success.
The principle of “getting stronger together” is at the heart of El Dorado Hills BJJ. In a sport that requires intense physical and mental training it’s important to be surrounded by a supportive team. This makes it easier to push through challenges and strive towards your goals.

One of the key ways teamwork is essential in Jiu Jitsu is through drilling. Drilling is when two training partners work together to practice specific techniques and movements repeatedly. By working together, each partner is able to improve their technique and progress towards mastering their skill.

However, drilling goes beyond just improving technique. It also allows you to get to know your training partner and build a sense of camaraderie. When you spend hours drilling with someone, you learn to trust and rely on them.

Another way that teamwork is developed in Jiu Jitsu is through training camps and sparring. When athletes come together for intense training they are able to push each other to reach new heights. They learn from one another, share their struggles and triumphs and create bonds that will last a lifetime.

In Jiu Jitsu, as in life, success is not just about individual accomplishment . It’s also about working together to achieve something greater than yourself. Whether it’s through drilling with your partner or training hard with the team, the principle of “getting stronger together” is an essential part of our gym. 

Coach Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Mindset by Carol S. Dweck

I recently finished reading Mindset by Carol S. Dweck. This was one of my favorite books I have ever read. The book was about the differences between a “fixed” mindset and a “growth” mindset and how having a growth mindset can foster a love for learning and set people up for success. The book is split into different categories; Sports, Business, Parenting and Relationships, it gives a lot of examples of each mindset in each chapter and the results of that mindset.

One of my favorite sections of this book was in the parenting chapter. It talks about how difficult it can be to teach children how to have a growth mindset even if you (the parent) are a growth minded person. One of the strategies it talks about is praising children for effort and hard work instead of results. One of the examples was of a family who at dinner always asked each other; What did you learn today? What mistakes did you make that taught an important lesson? What did you try today that was very hard? I thought this was really cool.

At the end of the book it talks a lot about how to start building a growth mindset and passing it on to others. It says that everybody actually has a mix of fixed and growth mindset and that’s just part of being human. The author did an exercise with some of her students where they all had to name their “fixed mindset persona” and write out things that persona says to them and how it makes them feel. I liked that exercise a lot. Even though all of these students were pretty growth minded they often dealt with intrusive fixed mindset thoughts and I could relate to that a lot. 

Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Jiu Jitsu Kids Camp in El Dorado Hills

 I recently ran my first Jiu Jitsu Camp for ages five and older. In the past all of the camps have been seven and up. It was a full camp and the most fun one yet. Having the younger kids there came with some new challenges but I was prepared for them.
The main difference having the younger kids in camp is being ready for the shorter attention span. I had to be ready to refocus the group or change activities much more often than when seven year olds were the youngest kids there. Another big difference was the class style had to be more of a peewee/kids hybrid class with the kids split into groups and a lot of hands-on coaching. For the next camp I will probably allow this age group to come again. It was fun having some of the peewee kids there.
For the class portion of camp we did a fun warm up and practiced some basics. After that we practiced arm bars on the coaches and did some Jiu Jitsu matches. There was a very wide variety of skill and experience levels in the room along with the variety of ages. After class we played all of the mat games that we have played before at camp with the addition of a free for all snow ball fight. We ended the day with some snacks and board games. I haven’t picked a date for the next camp yet but I am excited to start planning for it!

Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu, Tournaments

Match Night at edh bjj

 We had our second match night last week at El Dorado Hills BJJ. Overall there were a lot of improvements since the first match night a couple of months ago. Especially in the PeeWee class, their Jiu Jitsu is looking better and better every month.

What I really Like about match night is that it gets the kids real match experience which will help them do well in tournaments. It is also much easier to organize and put on a match night than it is to do an in house tournament so we can do it more often. This is great because a huge part of competition is just experience, so the more matches we can get the kids the better.

I’m very grateful for all of the volunteer help we received for both match nights. It is so incredible to see the team come together and help us in building the next generation of grapplers! There were enough Volunteer referees for me to be able to oversee and take notes on the matches themselves which is great. We would not be able to make these events happen without the team stepping up and helping out, it’s pretty awesome that we have people who are willing to do that.

Hopefully we’ll be doing these match nights every couple of months and will continue to see the kids improve as a result. They have a lot of fun doing it which is good, if they are having fun they are learning.

Coach Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Coaching jiujitsu in the kids bjj class

Coaching Kids Class
Coaching kids can be very difficult in BJJ. It can be hard to tell where the line between “over coaching” and not helping enough is. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and here are some of my thoughts.

There should always be a head coach and there should not be confusion about who the head coach is. This means when the head coach is giving instructions to the group other coaches should not be doing any coaching/talking. If the class is practicing techniques that are “review” from a class recently then there should be minimal interference from coaches, this means the coaching should be mostly done vocally not physically. Kids learn Jiu Jitsu by moving so the more they are moving with their partner without interruption the better. Learning NEW techniques can be a little different though. Some kids, especially new kids may need physical help at first to move through a technique, but the sooner they are moving on their own with their partner the faster they will learn. Even if it isn’t perfect (it probably won’t be) we can try to make corrections with vocal coaching and the head coach can bring it in and show a technique again if necessary.

When kids are doing matches or “sparring” the coach’s job will shift to more of a referee’s role. A referee’s job is to ensure nobody gets hurt. That means there should be absolutely no physical coaching/interference during matches, that will not set them up for success if they decide to compete in Jiu Jitsu. There should be interference if there is a submission or dangerous position that may result in somebody getting hurt. The arm being straight on an arm bar or a head outside single leg come to mind as situations where the coach needs to stop the match. Vocal coaching is still beneficial.

I feel very lucky to have so many parents willing to step up and help make the class better. The more we can all be on the same page the better we can make the class which will make us all stronger as a team. 

Coach Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu, Tournaments

Ruckus in the Hills Jiu Jitsu Tournament

This weekend I refereed for my second time at the Ruckus in the Hills in house tournament at EDH BJJ. It was a very fun experience for me as a referee and as a spectator. At this tournament there were a lot of PeeWee competitors, which is something we did not have at all at the last event. It was great to see some of the PeeWee students getting their first competitive Jiu Jitsu experience and it looked like they all had a great time. My daughter is in the PeeWee class and competed at the tournament for her first time so it was really special for me to get to watch her go out there and play. All of the kids in that age group showed a great attitude and exceptional sportsmanship.

I was really impressed with the kids and juniors who competed. They all displayed good technique and fought hard in their matches. Those were my favorite matches to referee. The brackets were put together well and there were a lot of competitive matches that were fun to be a part of. I hope the in house experience inspires a lot of the students from these age groups to do some more tournaments, it would be awesome to go coach those kids at some bigger events.

There were not a lot of adult matches but the ones that we had were great. Even though it was an in-house tournament and the people competing were teammates there was definitely still a competition level of intensity in the matches. Everybody was working hard to finish with submissions which made the matches very exciting to watch. Overall it was a great tournament and I look forward to doing more of them!

Coach Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Gray-white belt promotion

Gray-white belt promotion at edh jiujitsu

Ethan and Noah are brothers who started training together. They show up to training and are quick to say hello and greet their coaches. They bring an “I can” attitude to training, looking for reasons to persevere and challenge themselves with their teammates. Noah is younger and he will jump right in to mix it up with anyone. Ethan is older and he is full of positive inspiration, mentoring the newer students on the mat.
Congratulations

Kids Jiu Jitsu

jiujitsu class for age 4,5,6

PeeWee class at EDH Jiu Jitsu
When I first started coaching I was very intimidated by the peewee class. It seemed like it was going to be so difficult to get a group of four to six year olds to listen and move as a team. That’s because I didn’t understand the goal and expectation of that class.

The goal of that class is that they have fun, exercise, and learn something  new. The expectation of that class is that they are present, not perfect.
When I first started coaching I was a helper in the peewee and kid class. Pee wee jiujitsu felt especially overwhelming to me. The class has a fast pace and kids at that age have much shorter attention spans than the kids jiujitsu class.

When I started leading the peewee class it felt like a huge step up in responsibility. Once I learned the formula and understood the goals and expectation that class became very fun for me to teach. Watching kids at a young age progress every week and learning basic Jiu Jitsu positions while having a fun time feels very rewarding.


In the peewee class we want them learning basic Jiu Jitsu positions and basic movements. We teach these positions by playing games with the coach and with the students paired up, playing games with each other. The games involve significant elements of jiujitsu and are competitions where students work together or against a team mate for the win. With this method we check all of the boxes for that class; they’re having fun, they are learning, and they are getting a work out.


My expectation as a coach isn’t for the student to be perfect. If we expected four to six year olds to behave perfectly in class that would be an unreasonable expectation. We just want them to be present (and mentally checked in) while in class so they can learn and improve.

Something we talk to the kids a lot about is focus. The more they practice focus the easier it is for them to stay present. At the beginning of class we take deep breaths and talk about using our eyes, ears, and body as tools to help us focus. The deep breath is a really helpful tool to help them refocus. Another thing we talk about is hustle. To have hustle they have to be present, if they have good hustle, that means they are moving with focus. I really love seeing all of the students progress every week with their jiujitsu knowledge, their ability to focus, and their hustle. 

Coach Danny

Kids Jiu Jitsu

Back to School: We emphasize communication

Jr Jiu Jitsu Class (age 10-16) We believe jiujitsu is a means of teaching communication. Not just with our bodies but with our words. A way to express who we are and what we are thinking as well as what we are feeling.

We emphasize the idea of communication starting with talking about greetings. How do you say “hello.” Every good interaction is easier when we start with a good greeting.

As students finish up their summer and head back to school, we stress the importance of good greetings in building friendships and good interactions at school.