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Gratitude on the Mat: A Core Value at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

As the year draws to a close and the holiday season approaches, it’s the perfect time to reflect on one of the most profound values we can cultivate in life and in Jiu Jitsu: gratitude. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, gratitude is more than a fleeting feeling—it’s a mindset that shapes how we train, interact with others, and grow both on and off the mat.

Gratitude for the Journey

Every training session, every competition, and every technique mastered represents countless hours of effort, perseverance, and support from others. Gratitude allows us to appreciate the journey rather than just the destination. Each roll teaches us something new, whether it’s the thrill of a submission, the humility of being tapped, or the resilience built from starting over.

Take a moment to thank your training partners—the ones who challenge you, push you, and celebrate your victories. Without them, there would be no progress.

Gratitude for the Team

Our El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu community is special because of the people who come together to train, learn, and grow. From coaches who dedicate their time to passing on knowledge, to teammates who show up consistently to drill and roll, we are surrounded by individuals who contribute to our success. Gratitude reminds us not to take this camaraderie for granted.

This season, consider how you can express your appreciation. A simple “thank you” after class or an encouraging word during a tough roll can go a long way in building a stronger team.

Gratitude for Challenges

It’s easy to feel grateful when everything is going smoothly, but what about during tough times? In Jiu Jitsu, challenges are inevitable. Injuries, plateaus, or even a bad day on the mat can feel discouraging, but they’re also opportunities to grow.

When we face adversity with gratitude, we shift our perspective. Instead of seeing challenges as obstacles, we view them as necessary steps on the path to mastery. Each struggle teaches us resilience, patience, and problem-solving.

Practicing Gratitude Off the Mat

The lessons we learn in Jiu Jitsu extend far beyond the gym. Gratitude helps us stay grounded, even in the chaos of daily life. It reminds us to appreciate the small things—a kind word, a supportive friend, or the privilege of good health that allows us to train.

This month, we encourage everyone to practice gratitude daily. Write down things you’re thankful for, share a kind gesture with someone, or simply take a moment to reflect on how far you’ve come.

Thank You for Being Part of Our Community

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we are incredibly grateful for each and every one of you. Your dedication, positivity, and hard work make this community what it is. Whether you’ve been training with us for years or just started your journey, thank you for trusting us to be part of it.

Let’s continue to lift each other up, celebrate our progress, and approach every roll with gratitude. See you on the mat!

— The El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu Team

Adults Jiu Jitsu, Kids Jiu Jitsu

Cultivating a practice of gratitude in jiujitsu and martial arts

In a world that often focuses on what’s lacking or what needs improvement, cultivating a practice of gratitude can be transformative. Gratitude is the act of recognizing and appreciating the good things in our lives, both big and small. It’s a powerful mindset that can bring about a shift in our perspective, leading to increased happiness, contentment, and overall well-being. In this post, we will explore the many benefits of gratitude and how we can incorporate it into our daily lives.

Gratitude has been found to have a significant impact on our mental health. Research suggests that expressing gratitude can increase positive emotions, reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety, and improve overall life satisfaction. By focusing on what we have rather than what we lack, we train our minds to seek out the positive aspects of our lives, fostering a sense of optimism and resilience.

Gratitude has the power to deepen our connections with others. When we express gratitude towards someone, it not only makes them feel appreciated and valued but also strengthens the bond between us. Whether it’s a simple thank you note, a heartfelt conversation, or acts of kindness, expressing gratitude towards loved ones and even strangers can foster a sense of belonging and create a ripple effect of positivity in our relationships.

Practicing gratitude helps us shift our perspective from scarcity to abundance. It reminds us that even during challenging times, there are still things to be thankful for. Instead of dwelling on what’s going wrong, we redirect our attention to the blessings, opportunities, and lessons present in our lives. This shift in perspective can lead to increased resilience, a greater sense of control, and a more positive outlook on life.

Gratitude and mindfulness go hand in hand. When we practice gratitude, we train ourselves to be fully present in the moment, appreciating the beauty and goodness around us. By focusing on the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, we can experience a greater sense of peace and contentment. Gratitude serves as an anchor, grounding us in the here and now, and reminding us to savor life’s precious moments.

Gratitude is a catalyst for personal growth and self-improvement. When we embrace gratitude, we become more aware of our strengths, accomplishments, and the progress we’ve made. It encourages us to acknowledge and learn from our challenges, seeing them as opportunities for growth and development. Gratitude empowers us to cultivate a growth mindset and pursue our goals with enthusiasm and determination.

Here are some ways we can incorporate gratitude into our daily lives
Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you are grateful for each day.

  • Practice gratitude meditation: Set aside a few minutes to reflect on the things you appreciate in your life.
  • Express gratitude to others: Take the time to thank those who have made a positive impact on your life.
  • Focus on the present moment: Engage in activities mindfully, savoring the experience and expressing gratitude for it.
  • Shift your language: Replace complaints and negative statements with gratitude and positive affirmations.

Gratitude is a powerful practice that can transform our lives, fostering happiness, contentment, and resilience. By cultivating an attitude of gratitude, we shift our focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant, paving the way for greater joy and fulfillment. So, let’s make gratitude a part of our daily lives and unlock its remarkable benefits. As Melody Beattie wisely said, “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.”

Coach Danny

Camp, Kids Jiu Jitsu

Kids Camp in El Dorado Hills

Kids Camp El Dorado Hills had the first week of camp for kids age 5 and up. The camp is an opportunity for local children to learn jiujitsu, chess, and have fun moving. Healthy snacks of apples, almonds, cheese, and yogurt are provided to the campers are picked up fed and tired. The next week of camp will be JULY 31 – AUGUST 3.   NO EXPERIENCE NECESSARY to join the camp! We welcome beginners to jiujitsu, chess, and anyone looking to learn, move, and have fun is welcome!

In the jiujitsu lessons the coaches teach the fundamental movements and positions of guard, mount, side control, back control, a strong stance. These fundamentals give students an opportunity to better understand strong positions that are advantageous in self defense and anti-bullying situations. From these positions the campers learned different movements and submissions to control their opponent. When working with a partner, students not only are learning about the physical space their body occupies, but also how to communicate with their peers. Communication is an integral component of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Campers are taught the importance of communicating with their body as well as their words to convey their thoughts. Developing healthy communication strategies at a young age leads to higher EQ, emotional intelligence.

In addition to jiujitsu and the lessons we are able to teach through it’s practice. The camp also includes the teaching and learning of chess. While jiujitsu is chess with the body, chess is jiujitsu with the mind! After a morning of games and lessons in jiujitsu and self defense, the campers are given a healthy snack and an opportunity to continue working on their communication. Since we have multiple levels of chess players, we incorporate peer mentorship, “No Stress Chess” (a chess set designed to teach the basic game while playing the game of chess). and some adult coaching. This allows all levels of chess players to have fun and keep up with the game. During chess, the campers are given an opportunity to calm down from the previously rigorous games and exercises and direct their focus and attention on the chess board. Even the most rambunctious children tend to focus in on learning and playing chess.

A strong component of our camp is the concept of learn through play.  To do this we design our games with technical lessons and concepts to develop leadership and/or teamwork. One example of a game we play is tug of war. In tug of war, the team concept is developed along with leadership. The leader of the group is responsible for helping to “unite” their group to pull all at once. At the end of the game, the winning team will assign a number to the losing team to practice a technique learning during the jiujitsu lesson. If the number 10 is picked, the losing team will do 10 arm bars (for example) and the winning team will perform half (5 in this case). In this example, leadership is developed by the vocal member of the group to pull the rope all at once. Teamwork is shown and developed when everyone works together to pull the rope all at once. Technical skills are developed after a winner and loser is established to disguise the repetitions practiced.

Along with the practice of jiujitsu, chess, and games we emphasize gratitude. We talk about gratitude at the end of each session and ask the campers what they are thankful for. Through out the day, an emphasis is made of saying thank you, writing a thank you card to take home and give to someone, and thinking about the things that are necessary to be thankful for.

Join us on our next camp experience in El Dorado Hills! We welcome new comers and look forward to having our current members join us for a fun half day of jiujitus, chess, gratitude projects and games! Next camp will be July 31st -August 3rd!