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The New Competition: Insights for Jiu Jitsu from Start with Why

In Simon Sinek’s Start with Why, Sinek explores how businesses and organizations thrive by focusing on their purpose rather than getting caught in endless battles for market share. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, these ideas resonate deeply with how we approach training, competition, and community.

Competing Against Yourself

Sinek emphasizes that true success doesn’t come from beating others—it comes from staying true to your “why.” In Jiu Jitsu, this aligns with the idea of personal growth over external validation. While competition is a valuable tool for testing skills, the real opponent is often yourself:

Improving consistency: Did you show up on the tough days?

Measuring progress: Are you better than you were last month?

Focusing on fundamentals: Have you deepened your understanding of key techniques?

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we encourage our students to embrace these questions, ensuring that their journey on the mats is driven by internal motivation rather than external comparisons.

Infinite vs. Finite Games

Sinek contrasts finite games (with set rules and winners) with infinite games (focused on continued growth and contribution). Jiu Jitsu is both. While tournaments are finite, the art itself is infinite—there’s always something new to learn, refine, or teach.

Our gym embodies this infinite mindset. Whether you’re a white belt mastering escapes or a black belt honing subtle details, the path never ends. It’s about engaging with the process, not just chasing medals.

Inspiring Through Purpose

Organizations that succeed inspire people by sharing their “why.” For us, our “why” goes beyond teaching techniques—it’s about building confidence, resilience, and a supportive community. This purpose drives everything we do, from kids’ classes teaching life skills like bravery and humility to adult classes that foster camaraderie and personal growth.

Applying These Lessons

Here’s how you can bring the lessons to your Jiu Jitsu journey:

1. Define your “why”: Why did you start training? Why do you keep showing up? Keep this purpose front and center.

2. Focus on improvement: Compete with the person you were yesterday, not the person across the mat.

3. Celebrate the journey: Remember, the medals and belts are milestones, not destinations.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we aim to create an environment where everyone is inspired to keep growing—on and off the mats. Whether you’re preparing for your first competition or simply looking to improve your fitness and mindset, let your “why” guide the way.

Want to explore this mindset for yourself? Join us on the mats and discover how Jiu Jitsu can align with your purpose.

Legacy on the Mat: Lessons from the All Blacks for El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we strive to build a strong, resilient team culture—one that doesn’t just focus on wins and losses but on long-term growth, humility, and camaraderie. There are few teams in the world that exemplify these values better than New Zealand’s All Blacks. Known as one of the most successful and respected teams in sports history, the All Blacks’ commitment to excellence both on and off the field is a powerful model. Legacy by James Kerr explores the principles that drive their culture, and many of these lessons resonate deeply in Jiu Jitsu.

Here are some key takeaways from the All Blacks’ philosophy that we can bring to the mat:

1. “Sweep the Sheds” – Humility at Every Level

The All Blacks have a famous saying, “No one is too big to sweep the sheds,” which means no one is above the team, regardless of their role or status. After every game, players themselves clean the locker rooms, reinforcing a sense of humility and mutual respect. In Jiu Jitsu, this lesson reminds us that no one—no matter how experienced—is above the basics or too important to help out. Whether it’s setting up for a class, rolling out mats, or helping a beginner with a technique, humility is at the core of our practice. It’s about being part of something bigger than ourselves.

2. “Champions Do Extra” – Committing to Mastery

The All Blacks emphasize going above and beyond. In their world, “champions do extra”—they practice longer, watch more film, or perfect their fitness routines. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we encourage our members to do just a little bit more every day, whether it’s drilling a technique a few extra times, attending open mat sessions after class, or reviewing a move at home. This “extra” mindset is what leads to mastery and sets champions apart.

3. “Leave the Jersey in a Better Place” – Building Legacy

The All Blacks view the jersey as a symbol of the team’s legacy. Every player sees it as their duty to “leave the jersey in a better place” for the next person. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we encourage our team members to embrace a similar mindset. Every time we step onto the mat, we’re contributing to the legacy of our gym. Through our commitment, discipline, and respect for each other, we aim to leave a positive mark for future generations of students.

4. “Embrace the Pressure” – Strength Through Adversity

Pressure is something the All Blacks thrive under. They see it as a privilege—a sign that they’re in a position to do something meaningful. In Jiu Jitsu, pressure is a constant, whether it’s during a match, a challenging class, or even overcoming personal obstacles. Embracing pressure rather than fearing it helps us build resilience, both mentally and physically. It’s a chance to grow, adapt, and find strength in the face of challenges.

5. “Know Thyself” – Finding Purpose and Identity

The All Blacks focus deeply on self-awareness, knowing that success on the field starts with understanding who they are and what they stand for. In Jiu Jitsu, we also recognize that each individual brings a unique style, purpose, and personality to the mat. Knowing your “why” for training can make a huge difference in your progress and dedication. Are you here to challenge yourself, learn self-defense, compete, or just stay active? Whatever it is, knowing yourself helps you stay connected to the journey.

6. “Follow the Kaizen” – Constant Improvement

The concept of “Kaizen,” or continuous improvement, is central to the All Blacks’ philosophy. Instead of chasing perfection, they focus on making small, incremental gains every day. Jiu Jitsu is the ultimate journey of Kaizen. Each time we practice, we improve bit by bit, day by day. It’s about recognizing that progress is rarely fast, but with patience and dedication, growth is inevitable. At our gym, we emphasize the journey over the destination, embracing every opportunity to learn and get better.

Bringing It All Together

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, our goal is not just to develop skilled athletes but to create individuals who embody humility, resilience, and an endless drive to improve. The values that have guided the All Blacks are timeless principles that build strong teams and even stronger individuals. Through Jiu Jitsu, we aim to instill these values, creating a legacy that goes beyond the mat and into every area of life.

Let’s keep pushing, keep learning, and keep sweeping the sheds—together.

Exploring The Art of Learning by Josh Waitzkin – Lessons for Jiu Jitsu and Beyond

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we’re always looking for resources to deepen our understanding of martial arts and personal growth. One book that offers profound insights for anyone serious about developing mastery is The Art of Learning by Josh Waitzkin. Waitzkin’s journey – from chess prodigy to Tai Chi world champion – shows how mastering any skill involves universal principles that apply across disciplines. This makes it a powerful read for Jiu Jitsu practitioners seeking growth, resilience, and mental clarity both on and off the mat.

Josh Waitzkin’s Journey

Waitzkin’s unique path is central to the lessons in The Art of Learning. Recognized as a chess prodigy in his youth, he was the inspiration behind the film Searching for Bobby Fischer. But Waitzkin didn’t stop at chess – he transitioned to the martial art of Tai Chi, eventually winning a world championship in its push-hands division. The switch from one discipline to another helped him recognize patterns of learning that are universal, and he distilled these insights into his book.

Key Lessons for Jiu Jitsu from The Art of Learning

1. The Beginner’s Mindset

Waitzkin talks about embracing the beginner’s mindset, an idea that resonates deeply in Jiu Jitsu. No matter how skilled you are, there’s always room to learn. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we emphasize continuous learning, encouraging students to stay curious, ask questions, and recognize that each roll or technique holds something new. Keeping an open mind – even as we progress – allows us to improve and adapt over time.

2. Chunking and Building Foundations

In chess, Waitzkin learned to break down complex games into “chunks” or fundamental patterns. This method allowed him to recognize situations and respond quickly. In Jiu Jitsu, we practice chunking as well. Starting with foundational movements, positions, and escapes, we gradually combine them into complex sequences. By mastering the basics, students can respond intuitively under pressure, much like Waitzkin did in his Tai Chi and chess competitions.

3. Resilience and Embracing Failure

One of Waitzkin’s most profound insights is about the role of failure in learning. He explains that setbacks aren’t just inevitable; they’re essential. In Jiu Jitsu, we know this all too well – getting tapped out or failing a sweep can be frustrating, but it’s part of the process. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we teach that resilience is built through these tough moments, helping students learn and come back stronger. Embracing failure as part of growth is what helps transform frustration into progress.

4. The Art of Slowing Down

Waitzkin emphasizes the importance of “making smaller circles,” which involves slowing down to refine and fully absorb each detail of a movement. For Jiu Jitsu practitioners, this is invaluable. Rather than rushing through techniques, taking the time to break down each grip, shift, and adjustment allows for deeper understanding. Slowing down in practice often leads to faster, more intuitive reactions when rolling or competing.

5. Finding Flow

One of the most inspiring concepts in The Art of Learning is Waitzkin’s approach to finding “flow” – a state of mind where action becomes effortless. In Jiu Jitsu, we might describe this as the moment when everything clicks, and techniques come together naturally. Waitzkin shares how meditation, visualization, and focused training can help cultivate this state. At our gym, we encourage students to explore these techniques as they build their mental game, finding that balance between focused effort and letting go.

6. Learning from Every Opponent

Waitzkin emphasizes the importance of learning from every encounter. For him, each match, whether in chess or Tai Chi, offered insights into his strengths and weaknesses. In Jiu Jitsu, our training partners are also our greatest teachers. Every roll is an opportunity to adapt, test skills, and gain new perspectives, and Waitzkin’s approach encourages us to approach each session with an open mind and a focus on growth.

Bringing The Art of Learning to the Mat

Reading The Art of Learning reminds us that mastery is a journey, one that goes far beyond the physical aspects of any skill. For Jiu Jitsu, this book reinforces the idea that progress isn’t always measured in belts or medals, but in how we approach each challenge, how we respond to setbacks, and how we nurture a love for learning.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we encourage all students to explore this book and reflect on how these principles can shape their journey on the mat and in life. Whether you’re a white belt or a black belt, The Art of Learning has valuable lessons that resonate with anyone looking to deepen their practice and embrace the path of mastery.

Discovering El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that a deeper purpose drives every individual who steps onto the mat. For many, Jiu Jitsu begins as a curiosity, a challenge, or a workout. But as students progress, they often find a greater meaning in their training that goes beyond learning techniques or improving fitness. At the heart of El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu lies our “why”—a purpose we cultivate together that empowers and transforms lives.

1. Building Character and Resilience

Jiu Jitsu is more than a martial art; it’s a journey of self-discovery. We emphasize values like discipline, humility, and perseverance, guiding our students to develop resilience both on and off the mat. Through every roll and every tough match, we learn that failure is not an endpoint but an opportunity for growth. We believe that challenges shape character, and we’re here to support our students every step of the way.

2. Creating a Strong Community

Our gym isn’t just a training space; it’s a team. People from all walks of life, from different backgrounds and skill levels, come together to support and encourage one another. Whether it’s a first-time visitor or a seasoned competitor, everyone finds a place here. We work to foster an environment where each person feels valued, and where camaraderie and mutual respect are fundamental.

3. Encouraging Lifelong Learning

In Jiu Jitsu, there’s always something new to learn. This art continually evolves, challenging us to stay curious and keep progressing. We believe in the concept of kaizen—continuous improvement—instilling the mindset that no matter how much experience we gain, there’s always room to grow. Our structured curriculum and commitment to technique development ensure that each student is supported on their unique journey.

4. Promoting Health and Wellness

Physical fitness is a key part of what we do, but we know that wellness encompasses more than just strength and endurance. Jiu Jitsu offers a pathway to improved mental well-being, helping people manage stress, stay present, and develop confidence. Training here is a way for individuals to reset, gain mental clarity, and feel better equipped to tackle life’s challenges.

5. Inspiring Purpose and Fulfillment

Each person’s “why” is unique. Some of our students join to build self-defense skills, others for competition, and some simply to challenge themselves. But regardless of each person’s reason, they find a sense of purpose through their dedication and connection to this art. We are proud to provide a space where people of all ages—especially those who are 30, 40, and 50+—can find renewed purpose through the discipline and practice of Jiu Jitsu.

6. Making a Positive Impact

We strive to give back to the community through initiatives like our Guardian El Dorado Hills scholarship and in-house fundraisers, believing that Jiu Jitsu can be a force for good. From teaching life skills in our youth classes to providing scholarships for teens, we are committed to making a difference and expanding access to the life-changing benefits of this art.

Embrace Your “Why” with Us

Whether you’re here to test your limits, to find focus, or simply to be part of something meaningful, we welcome you to embrace your own “why” at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu. Join us in creating a space where purpose is as important as practice, and where each individual has the opportunity to grow, both as a martial artist and as a person.

Building Bravery on the Mat: November’s Youth ‘Mat Chat’ at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

In November, our youth program at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu will focus on a life skill that applies both on and off the mat: bravery. Through our monthly ‘mat chat,’ we aim to help our young students understand that bravery isn’t just about big, heroic actions—it’s also about showing courage in everyday situations, standing up for what’s right, and pushing through challenges.

What Is Bravery?

We’ll start by discussing what bravery looks like in different forms. For some, it might mean facing their fears, like trying a challenging new move in Jiu Jitsu. For others, it could mean speaking up in a tough situation or supporting a friend who’s going through a hard time. We want our students to recognize that bravery doesn’t mean being fearless; it means acting despite the fear.

Bravery on the Mat

In Jiu Jitsu, bravery often shows up as perseverance. For our younger students, bravery might mean stepping onto the mat to spar, trying a new technique, or challenging themselves against a stronger opponent. We encourage them to face these challenges with an open mind, reminding them that the true measure of bravery isn’t whether they win or lose, but that they show up and try their best.

How Can Bravery Shape Our Lives?

Our goal is to help students see that bravery is a skill they can carry beyond the dojo. By encouraging our students to face their fears and persevere through challenges, they’ll develop resilience that can support them in school, friendships, and all areas of life. We’ll also talk about how brave people are often leaders—not because they’re the loudest, but because they’re willing to do what’s right, even when it’s difficult.

Helping Our Youth Understand Their Own Bravery

Each child experiences bravery in their own way, and we want to create an environment where they feel safe to share. We’ll invite our students to talk about times when they’ve been brave, whether it’s in class or elsewhere. By sharing, they’ll see that bravery is something they can build on every day, no matter how small the steps may seem.

Closing Out with Encouragement

Throughout the month, our instructors will recognize moments of bravery in class, from a student attempting a challenging technique to someone helping a teammate who’s feeling discouraged. By highlighting these moments, we hope our students leave November with a stronger sense of how bravery can positively impact their lives and those around them.

The Founding Purpose of El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu: Building Strong Individuals and a Stronger Community

El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu was founded on a simple yet powerful vision: to create an environment where individuals of all ages can cultivate resilience, discipline, and community through the art of Jiu Jitsu. As a martial art that demands dedication, technique, and respect, Jiu Jitsu serves as both a physical and mental discipline. At our gym, we believe that this journey, whether pursued competitively or as a lifelong practice, shapes individuals into stronger, more compassionate, and more self-aware people.

The Heart of Our Mission: Character Development

Our mission goes beyond just building champions on the mat. We are committed to building character. Each class, each drill, and each moment of sparring is an opportunity for growth, both technically and personally. For kids, we emphasize the development of life skills such as integrity, respect, humility, and safety. Our monthly “mat chats” for the youth program focus on these skills, embedding them in a way that’s accessible and relevant to young minds. For adults, we emphasize the concept of kaizen—continuous improvement. We believe that every individual, regardless of age or background, can make steady progress, learning something new with every step.

A Place for All: Diversity and Inclusion in Jiu Jitsu

Our belief is that Jiu Jitsu should be for everyone, and we are proud to offer classes and programs for people of all ages and backgrounds. Many of our members come from El Dorado Hills and surrounding areas to train in our early morning classes, after-work sessions, and dedicated weekend training camps. We’ve seen that Jiu Jitsu has a unique way of uniting people, creating friendships and bonds among individuals who might not have met otherwise. This shared experience on the mat fosters understanding, mutual respect, and camaraderie that lasts a lifetime.

Giving Back: Supporting the Community Through Scholarships and Events

We are committed to ensuring that Jiu Jitsu remains accessible to as many as possible. Through the Guardian El Dorado Hills program, we offer scholarships to teens who wish to train but might not otherwise have the opportunity. Additionally, we host in-house events like “Ruckus in the Hills,” which bring the community together, celebrate the spirit of competition, and raise funds to expand our scholarship offerings.

Looking Forward: A Vision of Growth and Positivity

As we continue to grow, our purpose remains steadfast. El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu will always be a place where you can challenge yourself, where you can connect with others, and where you can grow in every area of life. Each day, we work to fulfill this mission and to ensure that our members not only become skilled practitioners but also embody the values and respect inherent in martial arts.

Thank you for being a part of this journey with us. We look forward to many more years of training, learning, and growing together. Whether you’re a seasoned athlete or just starting out, we’re here to help you become the best version of yourself.

Exploring Breathe by Rickson Gracie: Life Lessons from a Jiu Jitsu Legend

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that Jiu Jitsu is much more than just a physical practice; it’s a journey that shapes us on and off the mat. One book that encapsulates this philosophy is Breathe: A Life in Flow by Rickson Gracie. For anyone looking to understand the mindset and depth of Jiu Jitsu, Rickson’s story is an inspiring must-read.

A Journey Beyond the Mat

Rickson Gracie, a legendary figure in Jiu Jitsu, recounts his life from the intensity of his early training in Brazil to the global impact he had in popularizing Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ). While he achieved fame as an undefeated fighter, his journey wasn’t solely about competition. In Breathe, he shares the values and lessons that drove his success, emphasizing humility, resilience, and self-awareness.

Lessons of Control and Connection

One of the core messages in Breathe is the concept of flow—a balance between focus, calm, and control. For Rickson, this wasn’t limited to Jiu Jitsu techniques; it extended to his entire life. He discusses how understanding breathing and the ability to stay calm under pressure allowed him to manage high-stress situations, whether in a tournament or in life’s challenges. This lesson resonates with our own practice here at El Dorado Hills, reminding us that controlling our breath helps control our mind and body.

A Legacy of Respect and Resilience

In addition to teaching readers about technical aspects of Jiu Jitsu, Breathe delves into the resilience needed to overcome obstacles, both physical and emotional. Rickson’s journey is filled with personal challenges, but he faced each one with humility and a commitment to growth. For practitioners of all ages, his example shows how Jiu Jitsu can be a source of strength through life’s ups and downs.

Finding Purpose in Practice

For Rickson, Jiu Jitsu was more than a family tradition; it became his purpose and path to personal evolution. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we see similar transformations in our students as they develop a deeper understanding of themselves through Jiu Jitsu. Breathe inspires us to continue searching for our personal “why”—a reminder that purpose is often found in the journey, not just the destination.

A Book for All

Whether you’re a seasoned practitioner or just beginning your Jiu Jitsu journey, Breathe offers insights into the mental, spiritual, and physical aspects of the art. Rickson’s story reminds us that Jiu Jitsu is about embracing challenges, finding balance, and ultimately, becoming a better version of ourselves.

Next time you step onto the mat, think about Rickson’s journey and how it applies to your own. Keep breathing, keep flowing, and keep growing.

Empowering Teens Through Guardian EDH: Jiu Jitsu Scholarships at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that martial arts can profoundly change lives, especially for teens. Through the skills and values learned on the mat, Jiu Jitsu has a unique way of teaching discipline, focus, resilience, and respect. Recognizing this transformative power, we’re proud to partner with the Guardian El Dorado Hills project to provide scholarships for teens in our community.

Why Jiu Jitsu?

Jiu Jitsu isn’t just about learning techniques and gaining physical strength—it’s about building character, managing challenges, and finding confidence. For teens, this can be particularly impactful as they navigate an important stage in life. Training at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu gives them a place to develop mental toughness, make lasting friendships, and work with mentors who support their journey both on and off the mat.

How Guardian EDH is Making a Difference

Guardian EDH is committed to supporting teens who want to train but may face financial barriers. Through scholarships provided by Guardian EDH, teens receive access to our classes and become part of a welcoming community that encourages growth and positive habits. This support enables students to train consistently and grow in their abilities, regardless of their financial situation.

The Scholarship Experience

Each scholarship recipient is treated as a full member of our community. They have access to regular training sessions, receive guidance from our experienced instructors, and are encouraged to take part in the full range of activities and events at the gym. Guardian EDH’s scholarship recipients can participate in our youth programs, team events, and special seminars—building both skills and confidence in a nurturing environment.

Supporting Our Future Through Jiu Jitsu

By contributing to Guardian EDH or participating in fundraisers, everyone in our community can help make martial arts accessible to teens. Every scholarship provides a teen with more than just training—it’s a chance to become part of something bigger, to find positive mentors, and to build a foundation of resilience and integrity.

Guardian EDH’s commitment to teen scholarships embodies the values we hold dear at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu: a dedication to community, personal growth, and opportunity for all. We’re proud to work together to make Jiu Jitsu accessible and meaningful for every teen who wants to train.

How the Positive Coaching Alliance Philosophy Enriches Training at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe in a holistic approach to martial arts that goes beyond just technique. We strive to foster personal growth, resilience, and camaraderie in every student. This commitment aligns well with the Positive Coaching Alliance (PCA) philosophy, which emphasizes creating a positive, character-building sports environment. Let’s dive into how we incorporate these core principles of PCA to support our students’ growth both on and off the mats.

What is Positive Coaching Alliance?

Founded in 1998, PCA is dedicated to developing “Better Athletes, Better People.” The organization’s approach focuses on creating a balance between striving for improvement (pursuing success in sport) and emphasizing the character lessons that competition naturally teaches. Through concepts like “Double-Goal Coaching,” PCA encourages coaches to make winning important but, more importantly, to place an equal focus on teaching life lessons and building character. This perspective aligns closely with our philosophy at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, where our mission is to empower students through both skill and mindset development.

Applying PCA in Jiu Jitsu Training

1. Fostering a Positive Environment

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we aim to create an encouraging space where each student feels valued. Our instructors emphasize respect, support, and teamwork over rivalry. Whether students win or lose in a tournament or sparring session, the focus remains on what they learned from the experience. By highlighting growth over results, we teach our students to appreciate both success and setbacks as part of the journey.

2. Embracing the ‘Mistake Ritual’

PCA teaches that mistakes are opportunities for growth. This is crucial in jiu jitsu, where trial and error are fundamental to learning new moves and improving technique. For example, if a student gets caught in a submission, instead of feeling discouraged, our instructors encourage them to view it as a learning opportunity. We use the “flush it” technique — a simple physical or mental cue to let go of mistakes and refocus. This practice helps students develop resilience and a positive mindset, building both confidence and adaptability.

3. Focusing on Effort and Improvement

Jiu jitsu is as much a mental challenge as a physical one. By celebrating effort and dedication, we encourage our students to focus on long-term growth over instant success. This approach helps to build grit, self-discipline, and a growth mindset — qualities that apply to life beyond the mats. Each month, we discuss these values in our youth mat chats, underscoring the importance of perseverance and respect.

4. Role of ‘Honoring the Game’

A core PCA principle is to “Honor the Game,” which aligns with the respect inherent in jiu jitsu. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we emphasize the importance of respecting teammates, opponents, and instructors alike. Our students bow before entering the mats as a mark of respect for the art and those who practice it. This tradition serves as a constant reminder that jiu jitsu is not just a sport but a way of life, teaching humility, honor, and respect.

5. Building a Culture of Team Support

Jiu jitsu can be a very individual pursuit, yet at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we operate as a team. Instructors often pair students of varying skill levels to build a supportive learning environment. Our advanced students become role models, helping beginners with technique, and sharing insights. By encouraging this camaraderie, we foster an atmosphere where everyone feels they belong and contribute to each other’s growth.

A Lasting Impact On and Off the Mats

The PCA’s emphasis on life lessons in sports meshes perfectly with the broader mission of El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu. As our students learn to apply the principles of resilience, respect, and positivity on the mats, they naturally carry these values into their personal lives. Many of our adult students have shared that jiu jitsu has improved their patience, problem-solving skills, and overall mental resilience — all values championed by PCA.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we’re more than just a gym; we’re a community committed to building strong, well-rounded individuals. Through PCA’s guidance, we continue to create a safe and supportive environment where students can learn, grow, and thrive, both on and off the mats.

Starting Jiu Jitsu After 30 and 40: A Journey of Growth and Resilience at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

Starting Jiu Jitsu as an adult can feel intimidating, especially if you’re stepping on the mats for the first time after 30 or 40. You may wonder if your body can handle the intensity, if you’re too late to start, or how you’ll compare to younger training partners. The truth is, training Jiu Jitsu as an adult offers a unique and rewarding experience that can transform your physical health, mindset, and approach to life.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we see countless members in their 30s, 40s, and beyond embracing the challenge of Jiu Jitsu and thriving. Here’s what makes this experience so special:

1. A New Beginning: It’s Never Too Late

Whether you’re 30 or 50, starting Jiu Jitsu introduces you to a journey of continuous learning. The beauty of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) is that it’s more than just a sport—it’s an art form that promotes problem-solving and strategy, as well as physical conditioning. Age doesn’t limit your ability to pick up new skills or develop a deep understanding of technique. Many of our students say they feel like they’ve uncovered a hidden passion they wish they had found earlier, but also recognize that their maturity helps them appreciate it even more.

2. Physical Benefits: Strength, Mobility, and Longevity

One of the biggest concerns for adults starting Jiu Jitsu is the physical aspect. After 30 or 40, it’s common to notice changes in your body—whether that’s reduced flexibility, nagging injuries, or general wear and tear. However, Jiu Jitsu offers a low-impact way to improve strength, flexibility, and cardiovascular health. By focusing on leverage and technique, Jiu Jitsu teaches you to use your body more efficiently, which translates into better mobility and resilience in daily life. We have members who started with limited mobility but have seen tremendous improvements in their physical health over time.

3. Mental Growth: Patience, Problem-Solving, and Grit

One of the greatest gifts Jiu Jitsu gives to adults is the mental transformation. Life after 30 or 40 often brings its own set of stressors—careers, families, and responsibilities. On the mats, you’re challenged to stay present, think strategically, and adapt to changing situations. Whether you’re in a tough position or learning a new technique, Jiu Jitsu fosters patience and mental toughness. Every time you push through a difficult roll or master a new skill, you’re training your mind as much as your body.

4. Community and Camaraderie

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, our adult classes are filled with students from diverse backgrounds and experiences. What unites us is the shared journey on the mats, regardless of age. Training with peers who understand the physical and mental demands of starting later in life creates a sense of camaraderie that’s hard to find elsewhere. Many of our members say they feel like they’ve joined a second family. The support and encouragement you receive from teammates, combined with the guidance of experienced coaches, makes the experience both rewarding and motivating.

5. Setting a Positive Example

For many adults, starting Jiu Jitsu is also about setting an example for their children or showing that personal growth doesn’t have an age limit. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we often see parents training alongside their kids or inspiring younger members to persevere. It’s a powerful way to demonstrate resilience, discipline, and a commitment to self-improvement, no matter your age. Being a role model for the younger generation—whether it’s your own kids or other students in the gym—reinforces that the pursuit of excellence and learning is a lifelong journey. Your decision to step on the mat can have a ripple effect, inspiring those around you to embrace challenges and growth in their own lives.

6. Overcoming Challenges: It’s a Marathon, Not a Sprint

Starting Jiu Jitsu later in life may come with certain challenges. Recovery times might be longer, and you may need to adjust your training intensity to avoid injury. However, the key is consistency and pacing yourself. Jiu Jitsu is a marathon, not a sprint, and progress will come steadily with dedication. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, our instructors understand these challenges and work with you to ensure a sustainable training regimen that helps you improve while respecting your body’s limits. The sense of accomplishment you feel with each small victory far outweighs the initial struggles, making the journey deeply fulfilling.

7. Rediscovering Yourself

Jiu Jitsu is a journey of self-discovery, regardless of age. As an adult, you come to the mats with life experiences that shape how you approach training. Over time, you learn to push through physical and mental barriers, building confidence and resilience. You may find yourself becoming more patient, focused, and adaptable, both on and off the mats. For many, Jiu Jitsu becomes not just a hobby but a path to personal growth, bringing new purpose and excitement to life after 30 and 40.

Join Us at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

Starting Jiu Jitsu as an adult might seem daunting, but at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that age is no barrier to success. Our community is filled with members who began their Jiu Jitsu journey later in life and are thriving both on the mats and in their personal lives. Whether you’re looking to improve your fitness, challenge yourself mentally, or become part of a supportive community, Jiu Jitsu can offer all that and more.

If you’re ready to take the first step, we welcome you to join us and discover the transformative power of Jiu Jitsu. It’s never too late to start, and the rewards are waiting for you!