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The Founding Purpose of El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu: Building Strong Individuals and a Stronger Community

El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu was founded on a simple yet powerful vision: to create an environment where individuals of all ages can cultivate resilience, discipline, and community through the art of Jiu Jitsu. As a martial art that demands dedication, technique, and respect, Jiu Jitsu serves as both a physical and mental discipline. At our gym, we believe that this journey, whether pursued competitively or as a lifelong practice, shapes individuals into stronger, more compassionate, and more self-aware people.

The Heart of Our Mission: Character Development

Our mission goes beyond just building champions on the mat. We are committed to building character. Each class, each drill, and each moment of sparring is an opportunity for growth, both technically and personally. For kids, we emphasize the development of life skills such as integrity, respect, humility, and safety. Our monthly “mat chats” for the youth program focus on these skills, embedding them in a way that’s accessible and relevant to young minds. For adults, we emphasize the concept of kaizen—continuous improvement. We believe that every individual, regardless of age or background, can make steady progress, learning something new with every step.

A Place for All: Diversity and Inclusion in Jiu Jitsu

Our belief is that Jiu Jitsu should be for everyone, and we are proud to offer classes and programs for people of all ages and backgrounds. Many of our members come from El Dorado Hills and surrounding areas to train in our early morning classes, after-work sessions, and dedicated weekend training camps. We’ve seen that Jiu Jitsu has a unique way of uniting people, creating friendships and bonds among individuals who might not have met otherwise. This shared experience on the mat fosters understanding, mutual respect, and camaraderie that lasts a lifetime.

Giving Back: Supporting the Community Through Scholarships and Events

We are committed to ensuring that Jiu Jitsu remains accessible to as many as possible. Through the Guardian El Dorado Hills program, we offer scholarships to teens who wish to train but might not otherwise have the opportunity. Additionally, we host in-house events like “Ruckus in the Hills,” which bring the community together, celebrate the spirit of competition, and raise funds to expand our scholarship offerings.

Looking Forward: A Vision of Growth and Positivity

As we continue to grow, our purpose remains steadfast. El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu will always be a place where you can challenge yourself, where you can connect with others, and where you can grow in every area of life. Each day, we work to fulfill this mission and to ensure that our members not only become skilled practitioners but also embody the values and respect inherent in martial arts.

Thank you for being a part of this journey with us. We look forward to many more years of training, learning, and growing together. Whether you’re a seasoned athlete or just starting out, we’re here to help you become the best version of yourself.

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How the Positive Coaching Alliance Philosophy Enriches Training at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe in a holistic approach to martial arts that goes beyond just technique. We strive to foster personal growth, resilience, and camaraderie in every student. This commitment aligns well with the Positive Coaching Alliance (PCA) philosophy, which emphasizes creating a positive, character-building sports environment. Let’s dive into how we incorporate these core principles of PCA to support our students’ growth both on and off the mats.

What is Positive Coaching Alliance?

Founded in 1998, PCA is dedicated to developing “Better Athletes, Better People.” The organization’s approach focuses on creating a balance between striving for improvement (pursuing success in sport) and emphasizing the character lessons that competition naturally teaches. Through concepts like “Double-Goal Coaching,” PCA encourages coaches to make winning important but, more importantly, to place an equal focus on teaching life lessons and building character. This perspective aligns closely with our philosophy at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, where our mission is to empower students through both skill and mindset development.

Applying PCA in Jiu Jitsu Training

1. Fostering a Positive Environment

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we aim to create an encouraging space where each student feels valued. Our instructors emphasize respect, support, and teamwork over rivalry. Whether students win or lose in a tournament or sparring session, the focus remains on what they learned from the experience. By highlighting growth over results, we teach our students to appreciate both success and setbacks as part of the journey.

2. Embracing the ‘Mistake Ritual’

PCA teaches that mistakes are opportunities for growth. This is crucial in jiu jitsu, where trial and error are fundamental to learning new moves and improving technique. For example, if a student gets caught in a submission, instead of feeling discouraged, our instructors encourage them to view it as a learning opportunity. We use the “flush it” technique — a simple physical or mental cue to let go of mistakes and refocus. This practice helps students develop resilience and a positive mindset, building both confidence and adaptability.

3. Focusing on Effort and Improvement

Jiu jitsu is as much a mental challenge as a physical one. By celebrating effort and dedication, we encourage our students to focus on long-term growth over instant success. This approach helps to build grit, self-discipline, and a growth mindset — qualities that apply to life beyond the mats. Each month, we discuss these values in our youth mat chats, underscoring the importance of perseverance and respect.

4. Role of ‘Honoring the Game’

A core PCA principle is to “Honor the Game,” which aligns with the respect inherent in jiu jitsu. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we emphasize the importance of respecting teammates, opponents, and instructors alike. Our students bow before entering the mats as a mark of respect for the art and those who practice it. This tradition serves as a constant reminder that jiu jitsu is not just a sport but a way of life, teaching humility, honor, and respect.

5. Building a Culture of Team Support

Jiu jitsu can be a very individual pursuit, yet at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we operate as a team. Instructors often pair students of varying skill levels to build a supportive learning environment. Our advanced students become role models, helping beginners with technique, and sharing insights. By encouraging this camaraderie, we foster an atmosphere where everyone feels they belong and contribute to each other’s growth.

A Lasting Impact On and Off the Mats

The PCA’s emphasis on life lessons in sports meshes perfectly with the broader mission of El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu. As our students learn to apply the principles of resilience, respect, and positivity on the mats, they naturally carry these values into their personal lives. Many of our adult students have shared that jiu jitsu has improved their patience, problem-solving skills, and overall mental resilience — all values championed by PCA.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we’re more than just a gym; we’re a community committed to building strong, well-rounded individuals. Through PCA’s guidance, we continue to create a safe and supportive environment where students can learn, grow, and thrive, both on and off the mats.

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September Mat Chat: Focusing on Safety at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, our monthly mat chats are an opportunity to teach valuable life skills that go beyond the techniques and physical training on the mat. This September, our focus is on safety, a key principle both in and out of the gym.

Why Safety Matters in Jiu Jitsu

Safety is the foundation of successful training. When practicing Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ), we trust our training partners and instructors to create an environment where we can push ourselves without unnecessary risk. This principle applies to every roll, every drill, and every technique. Proper safety habits ensure that we can continue to grow and train, free from injury.

Key Concepts of Safety in BJJ

  1. Respect for Your Partner
    A core part of safety is having respect for your training partner. We encourage our students, from Peewee to Juniors, to communicate with their partners—whether it’s tapping out when necessary or discussing how to practice a new technique. By understanding each other’s limits, we create an environment of mutual trust.
  2. Controlled Movements
    Learning to control your movements is essential to preventing injuries. This month, we’ll discuss the importance of practicing with precision rather than relying on force. Whether you’re going for a takedown or an armbar, control ensures that you’re not accidentally putting your partner in danger.
  3. Awareness and Listening
    Awareness is a critical aspect of safety. In September’s mat chat, we’ll talk about listening to your body, understanding when to ease off during a drill, and being mindful of your surroundings. We also remind our students to listen to their coaches, whose experience helps guide them in safely navigating their training.

Safety Beyond the Mat

The lessons we learn about safety in Jiu Jitsu apply to our daily lives as well. Whether it’s crossing the street, riding a bike, or playing a sport, staying safe requires awareness, communication, and control. We want our students to take these lessons and apply them at home, at school, and in their communities. Our goal is to instill a sense of responsibility for both personal safety and the well-being of those around them.

As we discuss this important life skill in our youth classes throughout September, we encourage parents to engage in conversations with their children about how they can stay safe in different aspects of life. Through the practice of BJJ and these vital life skills, we are developing strong, aware, and responsible individuals.

Let’s have a safe and productive month on and off the mat!

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August Mat Chat: Embracing Humility at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu

As the summer draws to a close and a new school year begins, it’s the perfect time to reflect on essential life skills that go beyond the mat. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, our youth program is dedicated to not only teaching martial arts techniques but also instilling values that shape strong, respectful individuals. This August, our mat chat will focus on the life skill of humility.

Understanding Humility

Humility is often misunderstood as a sign of weakness, but in reality, it is a profound strength. It involves recognizing our own limitations, valuing others’ contributions, and maintaining a sense of gratitude. For young martial artists, humility is a cornerstone of growth, both in jiu jitsu and in life.

Humility on the Mat

In jiu jitsu, humility teaches us to:

  1. Respect Our Opponents: Every sparring partner, regardless of their skill level, offers an opportunity to learn and improve. By respecting others, we create a positive and supportive training environment.
  2. Accept Constructive Criticism: Feedback from coaches and peers is essential for progress. Embracing humility allows us to accept constructive criticism without defensiveness, helping us to refine our techniques and strategies.
  3. Stay Grounded: No matter how skilled we become, there is always more to learn. Humility keeps us grounded, reminding us that mastery is a continuous journey, not a final destination.

Humility in Daily Life

Off the mat, humility can be practiced in many ways:

  1. Listening to Others: Truly listening to others’ perspectives and experiences shows respect and can broaden our understanding of the world.
  2. Admitting Mistakes: Acknowledging our mistakes and taking responsibility for them is a sign of maturity and strength.
  3. Helping Others: Offering help without expecting anything in return fosters a sense of community and reinforces the value of teamwork.

Activities and Discussions

During our August mat chat, we will engage in activities and discussions that highlight the importance of humility. These might include:

  • Role-Playing Scenarios: Students will participate in role-playing exercises to practice humility in various situations, both on and off the mat.
  • Sharing Stories: Encouraging students to share personal stories where they experienced or witnessed acts of humility.
  • Group Discussions: Facilitating open discussions about how humility can positively impact their lives and relationships.

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that the lessons learned on the mat extend far beyond the dojo. By focusing on humility this August, we aim to nurture not only skilled martial artists but also compassionate, respectful, and humble individuals. We look forward to seeing our students embrace this essential life skill and carry it with them in all their endeavors.

Join us for a month of growth, learning, and humility at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu!

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Collaborative Learning at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu: Building Respect, Discipline, and Proper Conduct

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we believe that the practice of martial arts extends far beyond the physical techniques. It’s about fostering a collaborative learning environment where students not only improve their skills but also develop essential life values. Our goal is to teach respect, discipline, and proper conduct both on and off the mat, creating a holistic training experience for every member of our community.

The Power of Collaborative Learning

Collaborative learning is at the heart of our training philosophy. In our dojo, students work together, supporting and challenging each other to grow. This approach mirrors real-life situations where teamwork and mutual respect are key to success. By training together, students learn to trust and rely on one another, forging strong bonds that extend beyond the mat.

Through collaborative learning, our students:

  1. Develop Mutual Respect: Working with different partners helps students understand and appreciate diverse perspectives and abilities. This mutual respect fosters a positive and inclusive training environment.
  2. Enhance Communication Skills: Effective communication is crucial in Jiu Jitsu. Students learn to convey their thoughts clearly, listen actively, and provide constructive feedback, which are invaluable skills both in and out of the dojo.
  3. Build Confidence: Training in a supportive group setting encourages students to push their limits and take on new challenges. As they see their progress and receive encouragement from peers, their confidence grows.
  4. Learn Accountability: Collaborative training emphasizes accountability. Students learn that their actions impact their training partners, teaching them to take responsibility and act with integrity.

Teaching Respect, Discipline, and Proper Conduct

Respect, discipline, and proper conduct are fundamental values in martial arts, and we strive to instill these in every student.

  • Respect: Respect for instructors, peers, and oneself is paramount. We teach students to show respect through their actions—whether it’s bowing when entering the mat, listening attentively during instructions, or supporting a training partner.
  • Discipline: Martial arts training requires discipline, both mental and physical. Students learn the importance of consistent practice, focus, and perseverance. This discipline translates into other areas of life, helping them achieve their personal and academic goals.
  • Proper Conduct: Proper conduct is about behaving with integrity and honor. We emphasize the importance of sportsmanship, humility, and kindness. Students learn that true strength lies in character, not just physical prowess.

Creating a Safe and Positive Environment

To ensure a safe and positive environment, we have clear guidelines and expectations for behavior. Coaches are vigilant in monitoring interactions and are quick to address any issues that arise. When conflicts occur, we see them as teaching opportunities, guiding students to resolve them constructively and learn from the experience.

Join Our Community

At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu, we are more than just a martial arts school—we are a community dedicated to personal growth and mutual support. Whether you’re looking to enhance your physical fitness, build confidence, or instill valuable life skills in your child, our collaborative learning environment offers something for everyone.

We invite you to join us on this journey. Together, we can achieve excellence both on and off the mat, embodying the values of respect, discipline, and proper conduct.

We look forward to training with you and helping you reach your full potential. See you on the mat!

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Mat Chat: Keeping our community clean

Hey everyone! Let’s talk about why it’s important to keep our community clean, focusing on responsibility, community pride, and respect.

  1. Responsibility: Keeping our community clean is our job. When we throw away our trash properly and pick up litter, we show we can take care of our home.
  2. Pride: A clean neighborhood makes us feel proud. When everything looks nice, we can be happy and proud of where we live and play.
  3. Respect: Cleaning up our area shows respect for our friends, family, and neighbors, and ourselves. It shows that we care about each other and our environment.

By being responsible, taking pride, and showing respect, we can make our community a wonderful place for everyone!

A mat chat is an essential component of martial arts and sports training, serving as a deliberate moment where instructors and students gather to discuss important lessons that extend beyond physical skills. At El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu we value this skill and make moments to coach these skills with intention. The importance of a mat chat in reinforcing life skills through training on the mat and into life off the mat can be summarized in several key points:

  1. Values and Ethics: Mat chats provide an opportunity to instill core values such as respect, discipline, integrity, and perseverance. Discussing these principles helps students understand their importance not only in training but in everyday life.
  2. Mental Resilience: The mat chat is a platform to teach mental toughness and resilience. Instructors can share personal stories and practical advice on how to overcome challenges, deal with failure, and maintain a positive attitude, skills that are crucial both on and off the mat.
  3. Goal Setting and Achievement: Conversations during mat chats often focus on setting and achieving goals. This practice teaches students the importance of setting clear, attainable objectives and the steps needed to reach them, a valuable skill for personal and professional development.
  4. Conflict Resolution and Social Skills: Mat chats can address topics such as effective communication, teamwork, and conflict resolution. These discussions help students develop social skills that are essential for healthy relationships and community involvement.
  5. Health and Wellness: Instructors can use mat chats to emphasize the importance of physical fitness, nutrition, and overall wellness. This holistic approach encourages students to adopt healthy lifestyles that benefit their long-term well-being.
  6. Self-Reflection and Growth: By encouraging self-reflection, mat chats help students assess their progress, recognize their strengths and weaknesses, and develop a growth mindset. This reflective practice is key to continuous improvement in all areas of life.
  7. Community and Belonging: Mat chats foster a sense of community and belonging among students. Sharing experiences and insights builds camaraderie and mutual support, reinforcing the idea that they are part of a larger, supportive network.

In essence, mat chats are a critical educational tool that bridges the gap between physical training and personal development. They ensure that the lessons learned on the mat are applied to everyday life, helping students grow into well-rounded individuals who can navigate the complexities of life with confidence and resilience. We believe at El Dorado Hills Jiu Jitsu that”Getting stronger together” isn’t just limited to what we do on the mat but also off the mat.

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The Often Unspoken Code: Jiu-Jitsu Training Etiquette, Cleanliness, and Hygiene

Jiu-Jitsu isn’t just a sport; it’s a way of life that encompasses respect, discipline, and camaraderie. While mastering techniques and strategies are crucial, adhering to proper etiquette, cleanliness, and hygiene is equally important. In this blog post, we’ll explore the unspoken code of conduct in the world of Jiu-Jitsu, focusing on maintaining a clean and respectful training environment.

1. Respect for your training partners:

Respect is the cornerstone of Jiu-Jitsu training. Treat your training partners with the same level of respect you expect from them. This means arriving on time for class, listening attentively to your instructor, and never disrespecting your training partners, regardless of their skill level.

2. Personal Hygiene:

Good personal hygiene is non-negotiable in Jiu-Jitsu. Before stepping onto the mat, ensure that you’re clean and odor-free. This includes showering before class, trimming your nails, and washing your training gear regularly. Your hygiene not only affects your training partners’ experience but also reflects your respect for the art and your fellow practitioners.

3. Cleanliness of the Training Area:

Maintaining a clean training area is essential for everyone’s safety and well-being. Be proactive in keeping the mats clean by wiping them down before and after training sessions. Additionally, avoid bringing food or drinks onto the mat, and if you do need to eat or drink, do so off the training area to prevent contamination.

4. Communicate Effectively:

Communication is key in Jiu-Jitsu, both on and off the mat. If you’re feeling unwell or have any contagious conditions, it’s your responsibility to inform your instructor and training partners. Likewise, if you notice any hygiene issues with your training partners, approach them respectfully and address the issue.

5. Proper Attire:

Wearing the appropriate attire is crucial in Jiu-Jitsu. Invest in high-quality, clean training gear, including a gi or no-gi attire, rash guards, and shorts. Avoid wearing clothing with zippers, buttons, or anything that could potentially cause injury to yourself or your training partners.

6. Mindfulness of Others:

Be mindful of your actions and their impact on others during training. Avoid aggressive or reckless behavior that could lead to injury, and always tap out when caught in a submission hold to prevent harm to yourself. Additionally, be attentive to your training partner’s comfort level and adjust your intensity accordingly.


In the world of Jiu-Jitsu, training etiquette, cleanliness, and hygiene are as important as mastering techniques and strategies. By adhering to the unspoken code of conduct outlined in this post, you not only contribute to a safe and respectful training environment but also embody the values of honor, discipline, and camaraderie that define the art of Jiu-Jitsu. So, the next time you step onto the mat, remember: respect your training partners, maintain good hygiene, and uphold the principles of Jiu-Jitsu both on and off the mat.